A little back story is about 3 years ago the 7 year old (girl) was molested by her 11 year old cousin (boy) it was a one time incident. We called CPS and took her to psychiatrist who said felt like she was ok emotionally and physically.Yesterday we noticed our 3 year old (girl) was peeing her pants. She was recently potty trained but this was standing in the middle of the room peeing her pants. After the 3rd time warning flags went off and I pulled my wife aside and told her that is usually a sign of sexual abuse. Earlier that day the 3 year old was at a babysitter for a few hours. So we started questioning her if anyone there touched her Pee Pee and said no. Then she peed again in the middle of the room about 20 mins later. I sat her down and asked her if ANYONE had touched her Pee Pee and she said yes and pointed at her 7 year old sister. She was adamant that her sister touched her.We had the rest of the girls (we have 4) go upstairs and play and started talking to the 7 year old. She lied with bits of confession in between for about 20 mins straight. She then finally confessed that she isolated the three year old and pulled off her pants and undies and not just touched her but inserted her finger inside her. She said she was just curious but admitted to the 3 year old telling her no but she did it anyways.We are devastated, confused, angry as to why this has happened. We are calling psychiatrist to get her in. The 3 year old is normal today but we are looking at counseling for her as well.What do we do? How do we trust our 7 year old around her sisters? We feel like this was more than just curiosity. She has a history of lying and a disconnect from emotions and has been diagnosed with ADHD and the school as talked to us about testing her for a delay disorder.We need advice as in are we doing everything we should? Is there something else we can do? Our fear is that there is something more and that this might happen again.Thank you all in advance who reply. We will be in and out of the house today working and will respond as we can. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2GQ9pDY
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