I miss my wife..

We just had our 2nd kid couple of months ago and our older one is 2yrs and a bit.. her everything is taking care of the kids or getting annoyed at the fact that she has no breaks - but not wanting to ever leave the kids with help either (we have a house help who stays with us) I know that she is a wonderful mother.. and we were also so close before the kids came by .. high-school sweethearts (and we had our first one at 33.. so quite some time of just us) .. I get it that she needs support and not a demanding husband .. I really do get it.. but here’s my qs.. is it too much to ask for just 5-10 mins a day when it’s just us two? We have gone on 3 dates just us since the birth of the 1st one.. so that’s more than 2 years.. she wanted to exclusively breast feed.. so the kid has to be around.. mom’s - you’ll are doing a fantastic job.. and it’s very hard one.. but if you don’t have a jerk for the kid’s father, and you feel you are out of the initial months of the baby.. do throw a bone out.. coz the non-jerks probably have been told too many times that don’t be selfish and don’t ask for attention etc.. and they maybe won’t.. but they miss you .. all we do now together is parent.. I’ll not bring this up till the younger one is atleast 6 months old.. but really needed to vent.. so here :) via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2Fo9luB