Monday 30 October 2017

Vasectomy and Mourning


My husband has scheduled is vasectomy. We have 2 kids: my stepdaughter, 13, and my bio daughter, 20 months. It took us 2 miscarriages to get to her. I feel complete as a family, I can’t imagine adding to the busyness of our life. And frankly, my husband and I are both creatives and we don’t want to divvy up our time anymore than it is.But I’m a little sad? That’s normal, right?Also anyone have any rituals or anything they did to mourn/celebrate/whatever? I mean, do I get my husband a present? What’s the etiquette here? What do I do for me to reassure myself this is what I wanted and to move on to the next phase of our life? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2ihNwCT

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