12 weeks along, how should we start preparing?

This is our first. I (mom) work full time in IT, dad is a medical student about to start two years of rotations (i.e. try out all the specialties, it's a pretty cool part of medical school). I happen to work for a great company where I get 12 weeks fully paid maternity leave and an additional 4 weeks before the due date through FMLA.We live in a way too small apartment and have an application in to move to family housing on campus. We think we will be able to move to a much more appropriately sized 2 bedroom apartment in the late 2nd trimester or early third.So far, family & friends have bequeathed to us a crib (meets current safety standards, score!), a stroller, and a glider chair. We've got a Pinterest board and an Amazon registry to collect the rest of the necessities.At this point, what do you wish you had known or started doing? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/296QLwr