Are there any parents of children 4 and under who don't feel like they're treading water?

If so, what's the secret? Do you have a big support system outside of your spouse?I was just reading a thread on a different sub discussing stay-at-home moms and working moms and someone put it well by saying how both groups are treading water, basically in survival mode.It's totally true and feels like it could not have always been this way for humans. Where and when did it go wrong as a species?Is there anybody with young children who feels like they are not just surviving but also thriving on a personal level? via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2GQj2Yl