Do now what?

I've been struggling with my 5 year old alot, but I have been trying to get better. I try to go on activities with her, spend time with her, do chores with her, ect. Do things she likes, teach her things, ect. I am trying to be more gentle and understanding and build routines. But she just flat out admitted to me she breaks rules and does deliberately obnoxious things to "make me tired" i.e. kick my depression in to high gear so I have to have a recharge day, so she can go stay with my SIL. I am trying to get my moods under control and get therapy. I swear I am trying. But dome days I just don't have the faculties to function. I know the easy answer is just to not let her stay at my SILs. But what can I do to make her want to be home? I am trying so hard and it hurts that nothing I do is right. Is it too little to late? Maybe I should just let her move in over there? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2v5wz5o