I am in need of advice My 10 year old, middle child has a very strong and special personality.he is very creative and sweet but also he has no idea how to deal with frustration and still throws tantrums. Today he went to a summer activity for kids and I came a little late to pick him up. When I was on my way they called me because they were holding him so he wouldn't run away, I could hear him screaming in the background. I asked to talk to him and he would calm down. Turns out he lost in a game and lost it, yelled at everyone and made everyone miserable. When I arrived I got lectured about my terrible parenting and I couldn't help but cry. I have had him attend therapy group, he has been evaluated by school psychologists (in his former school, we recently moved abroad) and I took him to a neurologist because I was sure he was ADD but he ruled it out and said he only needed to excercising his concentration... I am at loss. We already asked his new school to have him evaluated by the psychologist there but she had no time in her schedule until after summer holidays. We are going on a two week trip this Saturday. He is a good kid, our friends always tell us they are impressed about our kids good behavior in social gatherings. These things don't happen all the time but when they do they are terrible for eveyone. He doesn't feel guilty,he says everyone is wrong but him or just acts like nothing happened. I need some encouragement. I feel like a terrible mom. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2mKnX04
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