I want to throw this out first; I love my husband and I do see him as my sons dad (biologically he’s not but no one would ever know and he’s legally adopting him)Now I don’t claim to be a perfect parent at all, I have my moments I yell I cry and sometimes I scream. I really try to just gentle parenting and I won’t lie sometimes our kid really tests my patience!But my husband is a whole new level. My poor 2 year old gets yelled at for basically anything in my eyes.. He wees himself - he gets yelled at He touches something he shouldn’t - yelled atIt’s gotten to the point that my son screams and yells when my husband raises his voice because he thinks it’s acceptable behaviour. He can get really handsy my boy and I will enforce the 3 step rule.. 3 warnings or naughty step.. I also enforce the breathing seat for when he’s overwhelmed. I try to tell my husband that his expectations of our only just turning 3 year old are way way to high and he will take notice for a few days then it reverts back. He never has a temper with me but I get a huge temper with him when he’s like this towards my son.It’s a never ending cycle. Today he grabbed our sons hand and pulled him to the naughty step for having an accident because he got excited. This caused me to SNAP I walked over and grabbed his arm and pulled him hard and pushed him on to the floor.I then yelled “How do you like being dragged around for no reason!? How do you like being yelled at !?!?”He’s now getting ready for work and he’s not talking to me.I’ve told him straight away that if he doesn’t sort this habit out then I want a divorce. I won’t tolerate it. Currently hugging my son in the sofa !Again he is in my and his eyes our sons daddy and he has every right to parent how he wants but when it really affects the child I don’t agreeDoes anyone have any advise or tips? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2o8OjgG
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