what to do with my daughter and mothers relationship.

Well, on September 8th(my birthday), my father discovered that I have a tattoo. He's 58 and I'm a 32-year-old female. It quickly turned into a screaming battle after I told him I wanted to do a side business doing permanent make-up. He called me a lizard and told me that I'm going to have this horrible life now.... so I told him to leave my house. He then yelled at me for not baptizing my kids and that he wasn't my friend, he's my parent and he knows what's best for me; then I told him to get the fuck out of my house. We have NEVER been close, he disowned my sister for being gay and constantly takes shit behind my brothers back calling him fat and lazy. It might be helpful to share that my household growing up was a traditional Mexican household we were very Catholic.My mom was the only thing that made my life habitable as a child and she was far from perfect. She helped care for my daughter, now 8, when me and her father/husband were at work. They are/were pretty close, however, I'm disowned now. I haven't gotten a single phone call, text, from my mother. My daughter keeps asking when we're going to see grandma again. I try to avoid answering the question but her birthday and Christmas are coming up....I don't know what to do, I would like some advice. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Nlh9mz