So I'm a parent to a mix child and the grandmother has custody which she has had since 2014. I've been incarcerated multiple rehabilitations since that time. I achieved real sobriety in 2018 and have been a constant figure in my daughter's life. The horrible thing I had to accept is that even though I'm getting better the grandma & the mother of my child have not. They are constantly at war with each other which affects my time with my daughter plus her overall temperament. It's sad to have to witness this. I had to make a tough decision and choose my sobriety and not see my child for sometime to be able to come back & fight for some form of custody cause the degree of manipulation both of these women inflict upon me for either $or just a hostage on their misery is horrible. I admit I've made mistakes but I've never used my child as a pawn to further my own agenda. Their story was dramatic enough to make it on the Dr Phil show to Illustrate the level of chaos I put up with it. I'm not sure what to do till I have the ability to fight for custody do I avoid them & not allow myself to be put in a situation that could cause me to have a relapse or do I just go over there and risk that to see my kid & fall back into their emotional spider web? I need help?Lost but not bound via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2JmXnFR
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