My older daughter (12) no longer wants to see her father.

Her father and I divorced two years ago. It was pretty rough on all of us. My oldest daughter, A, missed him a lot when he moved out, and she always counted down the days to see him, always getting very excited when she got to see him. Now, she begs to stay with me on her weekends with him. She has also decided to quit dance; he was one of her dance teachers and that was a chance for her to see him, but she no longer wants to do that. She has also tried getting her younger sister, S, to quit, too, but S has wanted to stay in dance, and to continue seeing her father. I’m a little worried that my ex did something to A. I know he could be tough as a teacher, but A was usually able to deal with that. I’m also wondering if it has to do with his girlfriend, the girl he left me for. A used to get along with her fine, but recently has started to fight with her.I’ve asked A why the change of heart about dance, her dad, his girlfriend, everything; she said she just doesn’t want to dance anymore, that it was too hard, but I feel like that doesn’t explain not wanting to even visit her dad, I don’t know what to think, and I’m suspicious at the fact that A is trying to keep S away from their dad as well. S seems fine with her dad, and my daughters have definitely fought over this. I feel pretty lost in this, what should I do? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/32lnzs0