Sunday, 3 March 2019

Please Tell Me Positive Stories Of Conscious Uncouplings, Remaining Great Friends After Separation And Divorce, And Kick-Ass Co-Parents. I Need To Hear It.


My husband and I (both 36) have been together for nearly 20 years and married for 11. Our relationship is ending now and I'm just so so sad. We have two amazing children (7 and 3) and I want us to be a family even if we aren't a couple. The kids don't know yet. He's going to move out this year and we will separate our assets etc. At the moment the days I feel anything nearly resembling good are when I focus on the positive future of friendship and co-parenting and not on the 'but what if I had...couldn't we just...'. We have so much love for each other but the relationship is finished. I want to look back and remember 20 amazing years. And I want our kids to know us as great parents that are great friends and create the best possible scenario for them.There's only so many interviews with Gyweneth Paltrow that I can read. Please tell me about your near-perfect post-marriage parenting situations so that I can aspire to something positive in the future when I've stopped crying. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Evcudd

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