
My husband and I are expecting our second daughter at the end of September. Our first born will be 2 in August and next week will be her last week of daycare. The plan is for me to become a stay at home mom since we can't afford two in daycare. However I'm feeling this horrible guilt about taking my daughter out of daycare. She really loves it and has fun playing with the other kids. I love the structure they provide for her and she has a friend she's grown close to there. Am I doing a horrible thing? I really feel like I am.On top of that I will still be working till I deliver and my husband works nights. So I feel like not having daycare is going to put a strain on us because he needs to sleep during the day and I need to work. (I work at home, but I still need to be able to focus on work.)There is also the issue of potty training. We want to give it a go before the new baby comes, but daycare doesn't really seem on board so that's one of the reasons for pulling her out now. Not to mention we could use the money we're saving to pay off a few debts before I quit my job.I guess I'm just looking for others opinions on the matter. Am I making a huge mistake? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Nz1bnt
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