How old is too old for son to sleep in my bed?

Let me start by saying that I already know I have let my son sleep in my bed for WAYYYYY too long! His dad and I separated when he was about 2 years old and it just became the norm for him to sleep with me. We have tried to get him to sleep in his own but he creeps back into mine. I dont even want to tell you how old his is because I dont want to get ridiculed! lol. My son has trouble in school, has ADHD, is super emotional... I am super busy and our days are hectic and crazy and sometimes night time is just the only time we get to wind down and chill and cuddle and I know there are not many of those days left because he is getting older and probably wont even want to hang out with me soon! But I also dont want him to get made fun of and/or have "mommy" issues as he gets older! Plus I am ready to sleep by myself instead of with a miniature tornado of a child! And I am also engaged and my fiance' and I are looking to move in together and I know my son sleeping with us is not going to fly! And I want him in his own bed BEFORE we all move in together. Obviously there will be a huge adjustment for all of us. He is almost 9 (yes, I am embarrassed to say)!So #1 - I already know he is too old but does anyone have similar issues? and #2 HOW do I go about getting him to sleep in his own bed!? #3 - please dont yell at me! :) THANK YOU! via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2nNdRzS