So I just wanted to know if I’m being unreasonable, Our children are ages 6 and 4.As of now, we all live together until I save up money to move out. I started my job around February and since then I’ve been working every weekend from 7am to 3pm. So naturally they stay home with their dad because he works Monday through Friday from 9am to 5pm. I only have Monday’s off and I work about 60 hours a week.He says that I’m lucky because I have a day off during the week, but I’m not lucky because I still have to get up early to take the children to school plus I’m the only person that cleans the house so my entire day off is me cleaning the house that’s gotten completely filthy over the week. Now he’s telling me I have to find someone to watch the kids while I work on the weekend, because he never has a day off. He has to get up in the morning to take the kids to school although I’ve already gotten their school clothes ready for him and the school is on his way to work, he gets off at 5pm so he has no time to go out, so I have to find someone to watch them on weekends so he can be able to go out because I go out maybe once or twice every 2 weeks but he never does.I just want to know if I’m being unreasonable for not being happy about this, I didn’t choose my schedule. I work almost 60 hours a week with 1 day off. I still have to cook and clean and get the kids school things ready for the next day, and also pick them up from school once I get off everyday while he comes straight home and lay down. And once I get home at 3:30pm he’s still free to do whatever he pleases, it’s not like I’m stopping him. But now I have to find child care or pay for it because he says he can’t watch them anymore every weekend. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2BBbaVh
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