Finally got to see my son after a month of him not being here. Reason being his mom said at 10 he started having suicidal thoughts and wanting to self harm and vividly describing ways to do so.Supposidly at his first therapist appointment, 1 day before his 10th birthday, bio mom says he can't come over anymore as his therapist stated my house is a trigger for his thoughts. Found out today from my son the therapist never said he couldn't see me and for the last month has wondered why I never called or asked him to come over as my normal schedule is every single weekend. She denied I called and told him I was too busy for him to come over all the while I have recorded phone calls begging to see my son and her telling me no.Son has rules at my house, no scary movies, no innapropriate youtube, limited game time, etc. Not extreme but not overly lax either. Tonight he shows me "cool videos" he has been watching at his mom's called asmr videos. Me having no clue what this is look it up and see nothing but sexual, innapropriate, scary, and even graphic videos of role play and noises no kid should be watching.Text him mom and tell her what he says he's been watching at her house out of concern because he's suicidal etc and she sends me back a "the ones he showed me were fine"....I'm losing my mind. She's fucking ruining my son and feeding his suicidal self harm thoughts and I have no fucking clue as a parent who has no custody rights what I'm suppose to do. Wtf is there to do. I AM SO FUCKING MAD RIGHT NOE via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2yxjvt8
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