I [17] am not expected to live past 20, how do I make this easy for my mom and how do I get her to stop apologizing to me?

I’m going to try to keep this as short as possuble. I have a heart condition that has been getting worse over the years due to drug use of my parents before I was born. Last year I was hospitalized ans I was told I was most likely not making it past the age of 20 (I’m lucky if I make it past 19). My mom keeps apologizing to me because we wre poir and says that she wants to at least be able to get me everything that I want while she has time for me. I’m not worried about that stuff really and I have tried reassuring her that none of it is her fault and that I’ m really fine. How do I make this all easier for her so she won’t go through much oain ir guilt anymore? How can I get her to stop blaming herself? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2PZE46q