New Father seeking advice

So we have a child that is a month old. I work from morning to night and I'm also a student. When I arrive home from work I usually try to catch up on my studies and any side tasks that need to be tended to. I know being home all day with the little one is a lot for my wife and so I've also hired house help to assist during the week, all due to the fact that I know I'm not home to help myself. She's told me that she doesn't know how to do it when I'm not home because on the weekends I make it a point of being available and usually caring for our baby so that she can have a break (which she deserves).So yes, how do you guys do this? How do you divvy up the time? I'm not able to function at full capacity at work and classes because when I see how stressed she is I tend to drop it all and help her, but that's not going to work well long-term. And before you tell me that this won't be the case forever, you all are parents. Sure the crying stops, but the responsibilities increase. :)So in shortHow do I help my wife without foregoing my responsibilities?Mothers how is the first 1-3 months and what are actions you wish your spouse took to help you? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2fdeJJD