I feel like all hope for my two sons is lost !

i am a mother that is dedicated to my 2 sons - ages 1 and 3. On the outside, we have a picture perfect life with money, nice jobs, and high goals for our boys. However, as I am getting to know my husbands family a bit more, I am learning that things are not what they seem.Today I learned that my husband has a recreational drug habit.I have also come to learn that his 2 only brothers are extremely heavy unrepentant drug users. Under their degrees and white collar jobs, they sport a daily array of prescription neuro drugs, Valium, narcotics, cocaine, caffeine pills, opiate teas, cigarettes, booze, weed, benzo's and sleep aids. All of that - everydayTheir only 2 children (both under 19) are addicts and sport cocaine, cigarettes, and prescription drugs openly - with the encouragement of - and often supplied by the parents. Both are in their 40's and have chronic and end stage diseases.His adopted father, whom came from a wealthy fortune 50 adoptive family, lived the last half of his life out of a garage where he smoked 4 packs a day and drank a 12 pack everyday until his untimely death.Some research has recently uncovered that the adopted father's- biological dad and brother - whom he never knew - died of drugs and alcohol related deaths in their mid 40's - they were heavy lifestyle users as well.I am shocked. I did not come from this type of background at all. I am terrified for my boys. Considering the genetic and now environmental components, I feel that they are headed down a dark road and that there is nothing I can do to stop it. I am considering splitting from my husband over this issue alone but I am not sure.They are beautiful baby's with bright eyes and Pure Hearts. How do I prepare them for the road ahead ? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2iUJhRp