When does it get better??

I have a 4 year old boy and an almost 6 month old boy. I work full time and am a part time student with online courses. WHEN THE FUCK DOES THIS OVERWHELMING FEELING GO AWAY?? Ever since the baby was born I just feel like I cannot get it together at all. I feel unorganized, my house is a WRECK and I can barely get dinner done in the evenings. Clothes. Omg there are clothes everywhere. I feel like I am at a breaking point, but I cannot seem to get it together to get things straight. I feel like the weekends fly by and I am so tired, I don't even have the energy to fix any of this. SO and I are bickering constantly and I just don't know what to do. Everyone I talk to say this is normal and it will get better. I just feel like it's not. I can't seem to get in us in a efficient routine everything is just unorganized chaos and I feel like I'm going to lose my mind! Please tell me it gets better!!! via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2vmqvXN