Alright, I'm feeling just a bit lost on what my three boys might be going through. Lately, especially my oldest, like to tell me some things that bother me when they are at their moms. To make things clear I dislike my ex and her boyfriend. She cheated on me with her boss, we divorced, and a year later had another affair with a married man and got knocked up by him, so I can safely say I can't stand people like them, but we've been somewhat good with our boys.However, after their new brother was born things have changed. They tell me how their mother ignores them now. Their soon to be step dad likes to ask them who their favorite parent is, doesn't help with their homework, or puts my youngest in the bathroom when he refuses to eat fish( which he hates). I've tried to show her how they feel, not pointing fingers and hoping she understands, but she just tells me I'm jealous of her and makes some odd arguments against me that has nothing to do with our kids.Her mother was like this. She hates her and now I see her becoming her. I've left dating behind because I want to focus on just my kids and work since I have them half the time as her. I'm not sure it'll be enough though since I can't force their mother to see what is happening. via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2Gnc4Xa
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