Our family history is complicated, so I'll try to be brief. I married my college girlfriend as soon as we graduated. We had our daughter at 26. We hit a rough patch in our marriage after her parents died in the span of a few months. While we were separated, she got pregnant with another man's child. I told her I would raise the kid as mine and I did. A few years ago, the biological father learned he had a son and got visitation. So my son does see him, stays in his home, and calls him.He is almost 18 and I am terrified of losing him as my son completely. He loves his biological dad and me, but I know the other guy and he has never gotten over the fact he didn't get to raise his child. My son told us that his biological dad suggested he move in with him after high school graduation and go to college near him. His bio dad has more money than us and likes to spoil him. My son also wants to go into the same profession as him. I'm worried my son will take up on the dad's offer and I won't be able to see him or do things with him. I also don't want my daughter to lose contact with her brother. Any advice on how I can prevent our relationship from collapsing? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2xIajio
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