So my son confessed to stealing gum from the store. He's 5. When I had my back turned he apparently just picked it up and walked out.I found this out after he was chewing it and offered me a piece (because 5yo logic)So I asked him if he paid for it and he told me no. I told him how proud I was for him telling me the truth, but disappointed that he had to resort to stealing.So how to punish this? I want him to understand real world consequences off theft, but not through just being grounded or taking something away.So I figured how much the gum cost and added on $0.50 for a "fine."So total came to $2.50I made him do odd jobs that are appropriate for a five year old and told him until he pays off his debt he doesn't get any privileges like tv, tablet, or playing outside.So he worked off $1.50 and then I told him for "community service" he needs to clean his room by himself and clean up his brothers toys too. I told him that this would also count for his last dollar.So now he's in his room cleaning it up and I can hear the occasional "Ugh! I'm never going to steal again!"So there you have it. Child size versions of real life consequences. I'd rather he learn them now than steal as a teenager and face hefty fines, community service, or even jail time.But to make this into a positive I'm going to start giving him an allowance for completing his chores and teaching him about money and proper finances.I'd like to think this is good, but like I said. I'm making this up as I go. Has anyone else ever done anything like giving a bite size version of a real world consequence? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2qbiraL
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