Raising your grandchild

Any grandparents out there raising 1 grandchild with others not in your care? We are raising our 2yo granddaughter but also have a 4yo and newborn grandsons who are not in our care (still with their parents) and are having issues with not having the kids feel like anyone is being treated differently, even though they are. They are all obviously too young to understand. My daughter is also having issues seeing her boys treated as grandkids and her niece treated as our child. I'm stuck in the middle trying to do the right thing but not favour my granddaughter in a way that shows favouritism, even though I'm acting as mom for her. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2roD0RC