What would you do...?

So I have a co worker who isn't the best person. She was my supervisor for about 8 months and she's just not a nice person. Anyway, she's in another dept now but we still work together. Anyway: I have a 4 yr old daughter and she has a 2 yr old and 6 month (both girls) so about a month ago she asked me if I had any hand-me-downs. Kinda caught me off guard and I dislike her so much my initial feeling was no, but I thought maybe she was having money troubles? I mean she even said to me that even if some clothes had a small stain not to worry she would take it all. And I though ugh sins of the mother are not sins of the child! Anyway I told her I'd look and see. I have only my 1 child and am unable to have more so there is no reason for me to hang on to old clothes but I had actually just given some to a friend of my moms for her 2 grand daughters. SO I've actually been putting aside some things and I was going to wait till I had quite a bit to give to her. Well, I have her on Instagram and for Mother's Day she posted a picture of what her boyfriend gave to her, a pink gun... then yesterday she posted another picture of the brand new fridge she bought... I mentioned it to another co worker who I'm friends with. She didn't have her on Instagram but I mentioned the gun and fridge and said that I thought she may have some money problems and my friend said how could they when they had bought something for her boyfriend's son that had cost them almost $1,000. So now I'm pissed! So I of course thought well I don't even like her so why should I give her anything anyway... but I also don't want to be petty. Ugh! Parents, what would you do?! via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2rFC22S