Wife(30F) is pregnant and we are terrified

My wife and I (35M) found out on Saturday she is about 3 weeks pregnant and we are both freaking out with different emotions right now. We weren't trying to get pregnant but we also were not making sure it didn't happen. We both just said if it happens it happens. She had some issues with her cervix a couple years ago and we were told pregnancy was unlikely. It hadn't happened anytime before so I think we both just started to assume it wasn't ever going to happen. Now that it has happened we are both terrified and are in a constant state of disbelief I would say. I just keep going over all the things in my head that will be different and that we won't be able to do anymore and I'm not sure how to deal with it. She is in the same situation and I would say is dealing with it worse than me. rightfully so, she is the one that will have to endure all of the changes to their body. I have no idea what to do or where to go from here. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2wkOrgH