Our 6yo doesn't care when she wets her pants.

My husband and I need help dealing with our 6yo daughter. She is very intelligent, compassionate and very extroverted. We are struggling with her peeing her pants CONSTANTLY. We have tried everything we can think of to remedy this.. i.e. grounding her, talking to her about why she does this to which she responds "I don't know. I just had an accident", trying to take every approach so she doesn't feel bad for doing it, but also helping her recognize the behavior. She is very aware what she is doing, but it's like it doesn't seem to bother her. We have now set times to remind her every 20 minutes.I feel like we are back to square one because she was fine for a while and it seems like she digressed. We have also had plenty of talks with both of our children about inappropriate touching, saying no to others, asked if anything has happened to them, etc. I wet my pants as a child, though not as often as she does, it was usually because I had to hold it for a long time. I was also really embarrassed when I did it.Has anyone been through this or recognize the behavior? What tips do you have? Additional resources/books would be super helpful as well because we are open to looking into anything that would help her.ETA: we also made charts with stickers and utilized positive reinforcement. Even when I remind her through out the day about the sticker she will still wet herself and not care about the chart. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2WLsiTO