My girlfriend (20F) and I start started having sex at her parents house while they were gone during the day. We used condoms and birth control, she still got pregnant. I don't know how, I always wonder if the condom had a whole in it or she really wasn't on birth control idk, I regreted ever having sex with her until about a month after my son was born. At first I really wanted her to get an abortion, I mean how the hell am I supposed to take care of a baby, forget the fact that I didn't want one. She refused and said I needed to man up. Well I'm 19M now and my son is 2 years old and she isn't doing anything. At all.I work and leave my son with my parents because she's hanging out with friends or doing whatever. I come home and take care of him by myself, we rarely speak because she avoids me. The last time she saw my son was 2 days ago and she was only here for 30 minutes before she left. She comes, might take a few selfies with him and leaves.I want to move out of my parents but I need someone to look after him while at work so I have to stay, she won't do anything and when I ask she tells me to pull my weight. I've had multiple sit-down talks with her where she makes up excuses.I don't even want her as a girlfriend honestly, before my son, she contributed nothing to my life other than sex. I just want her to be a mom. I might try to find a sitter because my parents shouldn't have to pick up her slack, I felt so bad I tried to give my parents money but of course they declined.I took him out of town for a day for an emergency visit to my grandpa and when we got back she was extremely angry at me for taking her baby, even though I texted and called a million times and went to her house.I try to go to her but she's not always at home, and when she is she just won't open her door. If she does open up, she'll take him for 30-40 minutes then make up an excuse to leave.She seriously isn't doing her part in rasing him.Any advice? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2IdEapq
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