
Well...I'm a male, 33 yo, married to a woman and we have a 4 yo daughter.My wife and I are going through a crisis for some time now and I think it will end up in a divorce real soon.It wouldn't be that big of a problem if we hadn't planned a few years back that we would move to another city in order for me to have this dream job I always wanted.It was great on paper, the three of us moving to a better area of the country and living as a happy family.Well, in reality, we are on he brink of divorce and I have to go in a year. My wife has zero reasons to go if we divorce and will stay here with our daughter. I didn't prepare for this. I don't wanna go alone. Well, at least not without my daughter.I realize how important my presence is for her. All the times she asks for daddy when she's afraid, needs helps with something or just wants to hug and kiss, I think about how starting next year she won't have that. What will that do to her? To our relationship? To our future?The city I'm moving to is far and you can't get there by road. It takes 2 plane rides to get there. We live in Brazil and it's a huge ass country.Anyway, I'm living this year as a countdown to saying goodbye to my daughter. She's not old enough to understand what's about to happen and this is tearing me. I really don't know what to do...If any of you reading this has something to share that might help me see things differently or, I don't know, change something, please chip in. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/32HI4Qz
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