Everyone thinks my husband is such a great dad, but he doesn't help at all with our child.

So first off let me start by saying that we made the decision to have him work full time and I would stay home with our child. I know how tiring working is and I am thankful that he can provide for us. Also one more thing to mention before I start my rant, he works nights so our schedules are opposite. Whenever someone says you guys are great parents or I'm so proud of you both I get so annoyed. My husband doesn't help out with raising our child at all. He won't change diapers unless I ask, and even then he waits until I get fed up and do it myself. He doesn't play with our little one nor pay attention to them. He doesn't help make food for us or even help me out so I can get some things done. He sleeps in until an hour before he has to go to work and uses that hour to get ready for work. Yet whenever we are in front of his family it's look at how awesome I am as a dad and will interact with his child. He has not been a parent since our child's birth and I am fed up with it. He is missing milestones and memories. He's missing out on growth and how amazing his kid is. He has not been there through all the ups and downs and I hate when people tell him good job. He doesn't deserve it. I am the one raising our child. I'm the one with the sleepless nights. I'm the one who goes through the good and bad. I'm the one creating a good life for our child and I get dismissed over and over again. If only they knew. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2VDZ8Wg