Wife has almost completely stopped taking care of our toddlers. I need help.

I’ll try to keep this as short and to the point as possible.I work a 9-5 all week. My wife is a SAHM to our 2 children. We have a 3.5 year old son and a 1.5 year old daughter.An important thing to note is that we barely have any supportive family. Her parents are not in the picture and my parents live two hours away.My wife has been diagnosed with postpartum depression. She refuses to take her medication. She says that she doesn’t need it, but she does.Our son is potty trained, but our daughter is still in diapers. She ALWAYS has a severe diaper rash due to my wife not changing her. She only changes her when our daughter leaks through and stinks, or when I remind her when I’m at work.The house is always a mess. My wife barely cleans. I do all of the laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, bathing of our children and their teeth brushing. Did I mention that I also work full time?!I’m sure that they don’t get a proper meal the entire day when I’m at work. They don’t eat meals unless I make something or if I order take out.Our kids sleep with us because my wife refuses to sleep train them. I hardly sleep despite working a 9-5. I’m mostly bitter about the lack of sleep.I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t turn to family. My wife thinks that she doesn’t have a problem. Our kids run wild all day long, and when I come home, it’s even worse.Has anyone experienced this? I love my family, but this has to stop. She doesn’t share her part of the workload. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2MQsiOs