
Right... So we are expecting, found out the other day, with nr 4.....Of course, we are really happy about this, absolutely... Or well I am, I think my partner is as well, I hope..Predicament, I really don't have a job at the moment, and my partner doesn't either.. She lost it during the parenting leave so... Yeah..And also, our living situation, we technically don't have space for a fourth, and where we live (Germany) it's a bit of a crisis on places to live..So we are, at the moment somewhat financially "struggling". And by that I mean, we have food and clothes and bills paid, but not really all to much wiggle room for fun activitys more then on occasions.Luckily, there is a decent enough support here, financially anyway.. For people who are unemployed and so on...Uhm.. I think, what we are dealing with now is, what would probably be the right choice (terminate).... Or what would be the hard choice, (keep it).. Our other children are 6,4,3 years old. So it is a handful..But im not entirely sure, that none of us can actually forgive ourself to terminate a pregnancy, based on the fact it will be a little tight living wise.. Financially we will probably be alright anyway..We both love children of course..I guess what I am asking is, what is your input on all of this "mess"? :) via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2ZIY9r1
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