My 9 year old daughter has been having gas, diarrhea, and has been accidently soiling herself. She refuses to

Hi everyone. My daughter has been having stomach issues for almost a month. She frequently has gas and diarrhea, but unfortunately she isn't always able to make it to the bathroom in time. Her late mother had Crohn's disease, which I believe my daughter may have developed. My daughter refuses to actually talk to me or her doctor about it. She's just trying to pretend nothing is wrong and has definitely been lying about how many accidents she's having in her pants. She said it only happened the two times I saw it happened, but she is missing over a dozen pairs of panties and a few pants and shorts. Over the counter medicine isn't helping. The only positive is that her stomach doesn't seem to hurt. She is definitely crybaby when it comes to pain, so she isn't faking that.Until we can figure this out, I have bought her Goodnites. I'm not forcing her to wear them. I didn't even tell her I bought them. I just put them in the hall closet for her to find. She has at least tried them. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/30QykS7