My ex ... “father of the year”

I just really needed to vent..I left my husband for many reasons going on 5 months ago. I was pregnant when I left and I’m due very soon (but acts like the baby I’m pregnant with doesn’t even exist).Well, since I kicked him out he would go back and forth between bad mouthing me or being up my ass like we were still together. It all depended if he was seeing a woman at the time or not. I’ve even gotten messages from women I don’t even know telling me all the nasty things he was saying about me to them constantly.He also would barely come around our daughter but yell at me about wanting joint custody (which I later found out he only wanted so he “wouldn’t have to pay child support.”)I’ve been in and out of the hospital due to a complicated pregnancy and after some fights and him harassing me I thought I was having either preterm labor or losing the baby because of all the stress. He’d get mad at me if he was having problems with his girlfriend ect so I told him not to contact me unless it was important since he never asked about the kids anyway.Well after a bit he “needed to talk” to me and was being all nice for a few days and tried getting back with me again. After turning him down I didn’t hear from him in 3 weeks until I saw him driving with a girl. I don’t know if he had a guilty conscious or if seeing us reminded him we existed or what, but after that he called me that day and “apologized “ if he didn’t contact me for a few weeks (he really said IF, like he couldn’t remember if he did or not 🤦🏻‍♀️). He was “sick and working crazy hours” which being married to him I know is his excuse he would say to his grandma or other people he just didn’t want to talk to. He didn’t ask to see our daughter who he hasn’t seen since February, even though today is Easter, didn’t get her anything. He knew we were getting pictures taken yesterday 5 minutes from where he lives and he didn’t want to come. I hate him so much. I feel bad for my girls that they have to grow up with a man who only acts like he cares when he’s not seeing another woman or if he’s trying to get back with their mom. via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2VY9DB9