Now it's my mom

I know there's a sub for mother in laws but I couldn't find one about your actual mother. I have to vent and hopefully receive some advice on this.My mom has stepped on my toes quite a few times and I never really said anything about it because she helps me out when I need it. I've always felt like I owed her something when I absolutely don't owe her a thing. Due to this I let her be in the room when I had my son, I've let her come visit at 6 in the morning when I didn't go to bed until 4am that same day, I've let her keep my son overnight even though I'm against it...list continues.Well, as of lately I feel like she thinks my son is her kid. It's getting on my last nerve. I've kept my cool but I'm close to snapping. I don't want resentment or animosity towards my own mother but it's starting to develop.As of lately when she sees my son she tries to get him to say Nana, he doesn't even say momma yet! Every time I correct her and tell her she should focus on him saying momma first she gets pissed and says, " I'm just as important." I flat out tell her she is nowhere near as important as me, the mother of this child! She acts like that's the worst thing I've ever said to her. It's extremely irritating!So, today she texts me telling me she missed her buddy (my son) and I reminded her that she gets him Friday while I go get my hair done. She was like, "i know but that's only 2 days away. I'm going to teach him to say Nana and momma." In reply I just stated, "well mom I'm sorry to break it to you but he needs to say momma before you even think about trying to start the Nana thing. I am more important, Nana is not important at the moment." What does she say? "What the hell brat, yes it is!".......no, no it fucking is not.How do I stop this shit before I kill my own mother? It seems like every day we talk she tries to tell me what I need or do not need to do with my son, she tries to tell me what I should or should not do with him, she makes remarks about his feet being cold or my apartment being too cold for him...it's endless. I am sick of it. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2ld5Amb