I’ll keep this as short as possible My (f42) son (m19) is about to become a father!He’s been very anxious about the whole situation as the girl (f19) and him only had a couple of weeks fling. They didn’t really know each other, he said he would support her decision no matter what so here we are, about to have a little bubs.They are not a couple at all and there has been tension between them, my son says very little but he seems upset as he feels she wanted a relationship with him and he felt it wasn’t a good idea, and he is not stable enough ( he has had two breakdowns in the last 3 years also a volatile relationship) is this fair of him? I thought so as not to set up for bad situation He says he doesn’t love her but will support as much as he can as a co parent, he says this upsets her and causes arguments Recently I asked my son if I could message her to see if she was ok and I knew the birth was coming up and I just sent a brief text saying that we are here for any support she or baby needs she has said that my son doesn’t show interest at all there’s no communication between them I know my son is very hard on himself and feels he is letting her down, he only works part time at a burger placeSo my question is about my place in this whole situation?Also getting my son to open up about what he wants me to do as in involvement with his new son, am I overstepping by messaging her to see how she is? I don’t want my son to get upset with me via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/38rbDr5
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