I have about had it with my 4 year old daughter

I almost can’t take it anymore. The tantrums are outrageous.She just turned 4 in September and the tantrums haven’t stopped. She has been the most difficult baby/toddler/child. I just don’t know if it’ll ever get better.Me and her dad aren’t together and haven’t been since she was 1. Idk if that is the problem or if she’s just a difficult child. We split custody 50/50 and her dad swears up and down she doesn’t act like such a brat with him.I’m convinced either she doesn’t like me or it’s just that he spoils her. You cannot tell her no.Huge tantrums are once or twice a week. Whining when she wakes up is like every other day or every few days. Constant whining when things don’t go her way. She doesn’t use her words and just points and whines. It’s just non stop. I love her so much but sometimes I just want to throw in the towel and let her be with her dad full time.It makes me so freakin sad. Idk what to do. I’ve tried everything. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/34RnBbY