What's your opinion? My spouse and I approach everything differently. We have one of those "spirited," stubborn, determined, Type-A kids. Not gonna lie, he's a lot to deal with. But hubs is all about being aggressive, demanding, spanking, etc. After 6 yrs you'd think he'd realize IT'S NOT WORKING. And I'm not saying I've never spanked him or yelled too loud, or whatever. But I'm constantly looking for new ways to approach him. DH is basically like, "He'll bend to my way eventually!" And I'm all, "Um, when? Exactly?" What ends up happening is our son wants nothing to do with his dad because he feels like he can't win. He's always in trouble. So I end up shouldering the majority of the parenting. I want and need a break and I can't get one because my son is all up my ass and my husband is fine with that because he doesn't have to deal with him. Which, in turn, doesn't improve their relationship. Thoughts? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/29dz12P
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