My husband and I are dying to have more intimacy in our lives. Honestly, without it we feel quite disconnected and grumpy. We have a 4 year old and 20 month old (who is still not great about sleeping through the night). We have both made a rule that we should be intimate atleast once a week, but once we finally get into bed we look at eachother and agree that sleep is just way too appealing. Or we start to do our thing and one of the kids starts crying or calling for us and that just ends things.I read about couples with multiple children having sex 3 to 5 times a week. This is what my husband and I dream of, but we just don't know how to get there. Are people just having a bunch of quickies? We don't mind quickies, but I have a hard time orgasming that way and my husband isn't a big fan as he prefers extended intimacy and both of us orgasming. He says he feels bad if only he orgasms. I don't mind it as long as I get to orgasm once in awhile. I honestly just love the closeness of sex.How do you guys find time to be intimate? How often are you able to be intimate? Is 3 to 5 times a week just a dream? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2a56UyW
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