What would you do?

My 20 year old Who’s borrowed money from me before And said he would Pay me back when he got paid broke And this was money for gifts he wanted to buy his friendsI asked him to keep the kitchen clean Take out the garbage This would be helpful since I know he’s getting started w working And he doesn’t do that ?Yesterday I see he swept garbage into the corner and didn’t pick it upI told him this isn’t working and I don’t want rodents or roaches in my house And than he got pissed at me and eventually tells me I’m old and lazyI know he’s working hard and hasn’t gotten paid But he’s disrespectfulI need to be strong and say no to him But I feel a little guilty - and yes I know You probably think I’m lameWhat would you do? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Xkr8gE