Husband thinks it’s funny to scare our toddler

Sometimes I feel like my husband is a crappy dad, but where do I draw the line between putting up with it and taking action? This morning he fed our 15 month old three waffles without offering any other sides, fruit etc. sometimes he does the same crap at snack time. He’ll just give him puffs while he sits on the couch and watches tv. When I ask him why he doesn’t also offer some healthy fat, protein, or fiber he just says I don’t know.But the biggest thing that bothers me is that he intentionally upsets our son. Today he crawled behind him and growled just to scare him. He’ll also try putting him up on his shoulders or hold him briefly upside down even though he knows it makes him cry. He’s never physically hurt him but sometimes he’s just too rough with him. He wants to play wrestle but our son doesn’t like it. It really pisses me off. I tell him to stop but he doesn’t seem to get that it’s not cool.Am I overreacting? Advice? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2KtorE8