How many parents work full time jobs and still manage to help with the kids without complaining?

Im a SAHM (25) and i understand that having a SO who is working full time means he wont be around to help too much. I dont expect help with honestly anything at all, from cooking to cleaning, i do it all. I have 2 kids, a 10 mo girl and a 8 yo boy, my son does well about not needing me too much but a baby means no free time to myself. She throws tantrums when its time to sleep and cries as if someone is hurting even if she cant even hold her eyes open from how tired she is. I asked my husband (25) for help with her because i was getting frustrated doing this nightly tango with our daughter. Instead of just taking her and helping he told me things i could be doing to keep her from crying. He spends all his time on reddit, all his free time is for reddit. He said he can do that because i dont work a job or help in any way so that putting her to sleep is basically all i really have to do since i dont have to be up early to go to work. Im honestly just really annoyed and needed to vent for a second, its starting to feel like i do everything on my own and if he thinks a paycheck is going to make me put up with him micromanaging instead of helping then he is out of his mind. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2XcxmyV