My husband always seems to make me feel less than because I don’t work. He was out of a job for 5 months. So quickly they forget how much time and effort it takes to raise children and keep a house clean. I get tired of asking him to do basic things around the house like yard work or stuff that everyone contributes in a household as a whole.When he gets angry he’ll storm out and take his sweet time while I’m left with the kids. So I thought why shouldn’t I be allowed to do the same without feeling such guilt? Why do I have to feel guilty for leaving my kids with their father for one moment of my time to gather my thoughts and take a shower? A shower, which I never get the opportunity to have because my children are too young to be left alone during the day and my husband won’t relieve me at a decent hour to do so. I know it sounds silly, but It felt fantastic to go to sleep with dry hair at a decent hour. I suppose it’s the things we take for granted before kids that we appreciate when we cease a moment. Anyway, thanks for reading this silly rant. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/32eUCyy
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