Wednesday, 3 July 2019

Super Mischievous toddler keeps throwing objects and does not respect boundaries.


He goes after peoples phones even if they are strangers. We don’t spoil him but He is an only child. he throws objects when he doesn’t get what he wants like the remote or ipad. he has no respect for other peoples belongings and boundaries. He can’t understand why its wrong. In toddler camp he also threw objects and when the teacher tried to get him to stop he tried to smack them away. He usually throws things when he doesn’t get to do what he wants. (like if we go to someone’s house a guest he must ring the doorbell “push the button” or he must put the credit card in the machine during checkout etc.). If he doesn’t he gets mad and protests.Thus far we tried: 1) Time out 2) calmly explaining why he cant grab others belongings since they dont belong to him. 3) calmly explaining why he shouldn’t be throwing objects 4) yes even scolding which obviously doesn’t work 5) he used to press the water cooler fountain to spill cold water (the hot is turned off) but i managed to get him to do that only when i hold a cup under. 6) He is developmentally normal and hit all milestones normally, Doc has ruled out any diagnosis such ADD or ADHD.Any other strategies to get him to stop doin whatever he wants whenever he wants? I assure u we don’t spoil him. When we refrain from giving him what he wants he will just wail for an hour asking for the “phone” and during that time he becomes even more destructive with his throwing. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2NuwRiF

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