I had a boyfriend at fifteen and was on the mini pill, taking it 100% correctly. At sixteen I found out I was 16 weeks pregnant (which was an obvious shock however after research I realised it’s absolutely possible). I am completely pro-choice but for me personally I don’t think I could ever handle an abortion. I got postnatal depression due to unsupportive family (on both sides) and my ex was emotionally and physically abusive. I had to leave him at late-seventeen and felt so much better for it. I am now with a brilliant, supportive guy whom I can actually see a future with, we have been together just over a year, I will turn 20 and he will turn 21 in July. I had been on the implant for close to a year and I suffered 2 miscarriages and large hormonal upsets while on it and got it taken out about 3 months ago. I am now on a different mini pill, once again taking it how I should be and have just found out I’m pregnant again. I’m not sure what response I would like from this and I’m not sure my feelings about falling pregnant again, I’m just a little shocked and confused. I’m still very young and put everything on hold for my beautiful boy and am still a stay at home mum now. I still suffer from anxiety and depression and it’s difficult to gather my thoughts well. My boyfriend is supportive either way and wants it to be my decision for the sake of my future health I just needed somewhere to talk about this and hopefully get some support or advice or input from someone who has been in a similar situation? Sorry this was a little all over the place I just don’t know what to think right now via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2F0VY7B
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