Im married to my husband since 28 years. Our only daughter is 18 (soon 19). She didn’t started to date until recently as she is very introverted and pretty shy. My husband and I both agreed that we would have allowed her to date far earlier, but she never had any interest in dating. My daughter is great and I am really proud of her. She is not only very smart and conscientious but also really sweet and nice to everyone. I just sometimes wish she would be less shy.Four months ago our daughter started to date a guy whom I will call Noah. He is really kind and caring and also very understanding of her insecurities. He is exactly what she needs. He is very extroverted and a bit careless but in my opinion he is good for her and totally unthreatening as he has clearly a good heart. Noah is very polite towards my husband and me. And I think he really wants us to like him.My daughter is clearly in love with him and he loves her as much as she loves him. They are really cute together.But my husband hates Noah. In theory he is comfortable with her dating, but in practice he just doesn’t wants her to date at all. He is really mean to Noah and basically bullies him. He also often jokes that he could hurt/kill Noah. Noah stays respectful, but its clear that Noah is not too sad when my husband is away.Our daughter is really offended by my husbands behaviour. She thinks that he should trust her more. And I feel that my husbands behaviour pushes her away from us. (Noahs Parents are both really nice to her.)What should I do?TL;DR My husband bullies our daughters nice and caring boyfriend. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2z61Es8
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