3 Car Seats: All in 1 row or use 3rd row seating?

I've been having this debate with my wife and I can't seem to get a good feel for the pro's/con's of either option.Our situation. We have one kid on the way and when s/he arrives I'll have a 4 year old and a 2 year old as well. My wife wants to get an SUV/Truck with 2 captain's chairs in the second row so we can do 2 in the middle and the oldest in the third row. I say why not just get an SUV/Truck that fits all 3 seats in the 2nd row.Here's what I'm trying to figure out if anyone has any experience with this situation. *Is it save to put a 4 year old in the third row? *Will 3 kids all in the 2nd row inevitably lead to a family war b/c of how close they are on any rides longer than 10 minutes? *Anyone have a recommended SUV/Truck that either of these setups works well in? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2eBVZ5Q