🎉💕Minor Updates / Clarifications 💕🎉

Hey folks...just a few things!​We added a new flair - Rave! Sort of the opposite of the Rant flair. When something is going great or you had a particularly spectacular Parenting Moment™ and want to share, use the Rave flair!***🎁Christmas🎁 posts will be allowed to stay up from today! We know we're a little pedantic about this - but we see *all* the posts! It can get overwhelming when it goes on too long. One caveat to this. We will have a MegaThread about the whole "How do you deal with Santa" thing. That's a different conversation than the general holiday stuff that comes up. We will start that up a little later. Use the Winter Holidays flair for all your Winter Holiday needs.***We frequently notice trends that go through the sub. This is common, and it happens everywhere, not just in r/Parenting. Usually, they are on-topic and on-theme so we leave them alone. This time ... I think something should be said and we may start moderating this new trend. Relationship issues. We know that the minute you mention you have a child some subs start telling you to take it to r/Parenting. We get it - kids complicate relationships, there is a lot more involved, people tend to try to give things a go to make it work "for the kids" and all that. It makes sense, and certainly having children can complicate a relationship. But...Not all relationship and couple issues are about being a parent. So we may start closing or removing some posts that are about the parents of a child when the child isn't particularly involved. If you've ever looked through the sub flairs for posts - there is no "relationship" flair. This is intentional. It isn't out of maliciousness, we just feel some relational situations are better dealt with elsewhere and aren't within the scope of the r/Parenting sphere! We don't have an official report option for this - any flag will make it visible to moderators. The "Remove Reason" will probably generically be "General Posting and Moderation" if you see it on your own posts.***Oh, one last thing - with Holiday Time comes the begging posts! Usually, they get caught by the SPAM filter, but if you see posts (or comments) begging for help, linking to Venmo/Cashapp/PayPal for money or trying to link to other donation sites please hit the report button! We have a stickied post right now for people who want to share their good cheer, there are several other charity-themed subs on Reddit if you are looking to either give or receive!Cheers folks! Enjoy the many upcoming holidays! 🎊 via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/334igg7