Friday, 22 November 2019

It happened, condoms are gone. How to approach this?


Previous Post: https://ift.tt/34cuuVv happened. So we had a talk about safe sex and did end up putting a box of 8 condoms in the bathroom. This was about 2 months ago. maybe a month in we noticed 2 were gone. Of course we were shocked, but it was just two. He could have just taken to to store away or prank with friends etc... Checked recently (We don't check everyday and/or even forget its there sometimes) and now 4 more are gone. At this point we're accepting that it's happening with his girlfriend. Of course i'm freaking out. IMO, 15 is to young but I know I can't stop him now. I need to have a more in depth talk with him but i'm not sure how to express it. What can I say to not encourage it or somehow give the acceptance that this is OK to keep happening. I feel if/when after the talk (or during it) if refill the condoms, he'll think "Oh they're refilling it so i'm going to keep doing it" kind of thing. I'm having the stereotypical father thoughts/emotions of wanting to say to STOP DOING THIS. I FORBID THIS! NO MORE HANGING OUT WITH OUT SUPERVISION! NO MORE SLEEPOVERS! I Don't want to be a 34 year old grand father. I do feel and will say i'm proud that he IS using condoms (if he's actually sexually active). I just don't want my emotions to take over and say the wrong things. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/33cerFC

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