Wife will not let allow me to parent

My Wife (27) will not allow me (31) to make any decisions when it comes to our son. From introducing him to new foods, sleep training, temperature of the house, what to wear, caring for him when he is sick.She recently left the country for work but before she left she wouldn’t allow our son to be sleep trained. Four days later when she returned I sleep trained him. He ate really well and was generally the happiest I’ve seen him.She returned and he started to get diarrhea and she thought that it was a good time to introduce him to eggs. He had a really bad reaction and we had to rush him to the ER. She still isn’t allowing me to care for him after making mistakes and seeing me do really well with him.I have so much anger and frustration with her at this point. All I want to do is have an active role in caring for my son in good times and bad. When I bring it up to her she denies it and says she listens to me all the time.Please provide me when any guidance.Thank you via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2G7wcii